Hot Women With Kid
Learn To Approach Question: Some friends set me up on a blind date you months ago with the girl they said that I would like and they were right.
At dinner he told me that she already had a child was four years old she is 28 and did that bother me? She was absolutely gorgeous so what was I going to say, I told her it didn’t bother me at all and for the first month or so it didn’t. Now every time I call her and try and organize things we have to work around the child. How can I become more important to her than her child because I really like her. Stefan UK
My Thoughts: Stefan. Mate thanks for the question and am very happy that your blind date went well for you. Blind dating can be very nerve-racking and rarely works out but it sounds like you’re one of the success stories. I have to be honest with you if the relationship is going to work between you and this girl you are going to have to put in a lot more effort.
I’m not going to go into detail on how you can become more important to her than a child because that will never happen. The child will always come first I can only hope that you haven’t told her you want to be more important to her than her own child, if you did tell her this chances are you’re no longer seeing her.
If you are the kind of guy who is spontaneous dating a single mother would never work. I say that because you can’t just call a single mother at 10 o’clock at night and organized to catch up, as the child will be sleeping. It’s for this reason I don’t date single mothers, as I’m very spontaneous and my work is the very busy.
I am thinking that you knew the child would be a problem because you said she was actually gorgeous so what was I going to say. This was the perfect time to you to be honest and tell her that the child may have been a problem for you, instead you’re now in a situation where you really like this girl but there is a child involved.
Let’s play a game let’s imagine the woman that you are dating has an identical twin sister who doesn’t have a child. If you had to choose between the two identical sisters who had the exact same personality traits and you decide to date the system with out a child the best advice I can give you would be to end the relationship and just stay friends with her. If it’s only been a couple of months and the child you is already a problem the problem is only going to get worse over the years.
I can guarantee you they’re a women out there with no children who are looking to meet a guy just like you if your job to find them
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