Get Her Number Without Getting Rejected: 3 Useful Tips
It sounds obvious, but if you don’t get off your butt and approach women you aren’t going to have any numbers to call at the end of the day.
Many men procrastinate approaching women because they are scared of rejection.
There are many things you can do to significantly reduce your chances of getting rejected when you ask for a number. Here are several…
>> TIP # 1 – Make rejecting you hard…
This one secret alone will dramatically boost your chances of getting a woman’s phone number… make it difficult to say no.
Instead of saying, “Hey, can I get your phone number?”say, “Hey, is there a phone number I can reach you at?”
Notice why the latter is better than the first?
Of course there is a number you can reach her at so she will have to say, “Umm, yes, there is a phone number you can reach me at but I don’t really want to talk to you again so, no, you can’t have it.”in order for her to reject you.
She’s not likely to want to go through all that explanation… her laziness works to your advantage.
>> TIP # 2 – Ask with authority…
Asking a question leaves you wide open for a rejection. Salesmen have known this for a long time and that is why they will often tell a prospect to”order now”rather than say something like”we would really appreciate it if you would consider ordering our product… please???”
By not asking in question form you reduce the likelihood that she will view it as a yes or no question.
A friendly”Hey, let me get your number”demonstrates much more confidence and charisma than”Can I get your number???”which places you slightly below her on a psycho-social level (because she has all the power in that situation – you are in a slightly needy/begging position).
>> TIP # 3 – Have a reason to contact her…
While you are talking to her pinpoint one of her interests. Then, when it’s time to leave say something like, “I had a great time tonight, hey, let me get your number so that we can [her interest here] sometime.”
For instance, if you are one of the luckiest men alive and her interest turns out to be football you would say, “Hey, let me get your number so that we can go to a football game sometime.”
Now in order for her to say”no”she will also have to turn down an invitation to an activity that she already said that she really enjoys.
The great part about using this tip is that you also have the first date set up…
So now you know how to get a woman’s phone number but there is a lot more to the dating game than that. If a woman isn’t attracted to you then having her number won’t matter because the relationship isn’t going anywhere anyway!
Creating attraction is EVERYTHING.