Romancing Your Ex Girlfriend – 4 Tips To Bring The Love Back

Dealing with the desire to try and romance an ex girlfriend is always going to be kind of tough, because of the simple fact that you are dealing with feelings of disappointment in the relationship not working out the way that you wanted it to and you are hoping that you can find a way to bring the love back if you can. When you have those feelings to deal with and you also aren’t really sure of what you need to do to make your ex girlfriend feel like she wants to work things out with you, that is always going to lead to confusion and that is something that you don’t want to have to deal with if you don’t have to.

Here are 4 tips to help you romance your ex girlfriend and get rid of any confusion that you might be feeling right now about what to do to bring the love back:

1)  When you approach your ex girlfriend with the goal of winning her back, you have to be a little bit sly about not letting her know that this is what you are trying to do.
You don’t want to be sly just for the sake of deceiving your ex girlfriend, that’s not what this is about.   What you need to remember is that your ex girlfriend is going to be on the defensive a little bit and you can bypass her defenses if she doesn’t think that you are just trying to win her back. She may consider that as a possibility and that is okay, you just don’t want to let her know outright that this is what is on your mind because if you do, you are at risk for her flaking out on you and not giving you any chance at all to have any time to try and work your magic on her again.
2)  Romancing your ex girlfriend the second time around is a lot like it was the first time around.
One of the more common mistakes that you can make in trying to win back an ex girlfriend is thinking that you don’t have to do the things that you did when you first met her. You have to look at this as being a totally fresh start and that means that you DO have to do some of those things that make her feel like it is the first time she is meeting you. That means that you don’t want to bring up the past with her and you don’t want to act like you expect her to take you back without you having to win her over again.
3)  Making her feel sexual attraction with you is something that you HAVE TO DO.
To think that you don’t have to work on making her feel sexually attracted to you again is going to also prove to be a big mistake. When relationships come to an end, most of the time that means that some of that sexual attraction has also come to an end and that is definitely something that you are going to have to work on if you want to have a second chance with your ex girlfriend. Seducing your ex girlfriend is one of the more effective ways of winning her back.
4)  You also have to make her feel like you really want HER and not just that you want to have a girlfriend again.
One of the fears that women will have when an ex boyfriend is trying to rekindle things is that he is only doing that because he is lonely and he wants to have a girlfriend again and the ex always seems like an easy option. You don’t want her to think that this is what is going on, because if she does –  there is a good chance that she is not going to allow herself to be an option for you anymore.

Dating Your Best Friend’s Ex – Should You?

This isn’t an easy one to answer and you’re going to need to do some soul searching. On the one hand you might lose a good friend, on the other hand you might lose the opportunity to date or have a relationship with the perfect girl.

We’re going to call the girl Holly, beautiful, ivory skin, and hair so dark and luxurious a guy could lose himself in the soft, sweet aroma. Holly was recovering from a breakout, she was a bit sad and lonely, and knowing what you do about women (you’ve read the book), you realize you could easily step into this situation and likely score gold.

Here’s the rub, the guy she broke up with your close friend. So what can we do, it’s catch-22, but  the clock is ticking and you know that someone is going to latch onto Holly, she too hot to be left waiting for long on the sidelines.

First thing to consider is how close your friendship is, does it go back years and years, or merely someone you’ve known for a short while. There’s going to be some tension, that’s simply life, the question is are you willing to put up with the drama to get the girl?

If he’s a close friend, my rule has always been to take a pass and move onto other, more easily harvested, pastures.   If he’s already dating someone else, then all bets are off and you can move in for the kill, or the consoling, take your pick, it’s likely to be some of each.

The one thing you MUST do is be honest with both your friend and the girl, and in this case anyway, the friend should be first. Simply find a time to buy him a beer and ask. I know it sounds easy, but when the moment comes, you’ll likely find a few butterflies, hey this is real life.

There always his side, her side, then the truth, so don’t ONLY listen to her (with the wrong head), but consider both sides of the equation. If possible, find out why the relationship ended, was their mistrust, cheating, or simply time for both of them to move on. If she dumped him and he’s grieving, c’mon, don’t pour salt on an open wound.

Take the time to look at the situation from both sides, if there are still emotions running high, you’d be wise to back off for a bit and stir the kettle. On the flip, if she’s the girl of your dreams stop dreaming about her and take action, which -as mentioned earlier- means you need to -man up- and be honest with both of them. This isn’t the time to be sneaking in the back door so your friend won’t spot you visiting his ex, there’s no future in that, unless all you want is a hot weekend, but then you’re likely not talking about the same level of friendship that I am.

As mentioned earlier, there will likely be some level of drama, know that going in and at the least you’ll be prepared for it.

Is she worth it? That’s a question you need to decide, think long and hard, you’ll make the right decision.

Going For The Kiss

The step-by-step guide to being super smooth when it’s time to smootch.
Today’s question covers a particularly sensitive topic – how to go for the kiss. Most guys won’t admit it, but they fumble this moment like a rookie running back. Want to be Walter Payton? Listen up.
Dear Stephen, Recently, I was out on a date with a great girl I met at a party. A number of times in the evening, she would look at me and hold the stare a bit longer than usual. I kept thinking, “she wants me to kiss her”. I was so nervous though, that I never went for it! What is the best way to set-up a kiss with a girl? I mean, I know how to kiss her, I just wonder if there is a cool way to make the move. Help! Thanks, Darren CT.
Darren, Darren, Darren… I feel your pain, man. First of all, don’t worry – this is by far the TOP question I get from guys. “How do I smoothly go from talking to kissing?”
Surprisingly, even the most skilled guys I’ve come across are constantly looking to handle this tricky situation a bit better.
Here we go – the step-by-step guide to being super smooth when it’s time to smootch:
In my estimation, this is where most guys blow it. They know the girl is ready to be kissed, yet they freeze up and pass a bunch of good opportunities to make a move, waiting for that perfect one.
Even worse, they’ll wait hoping the woman will make the first move!
Yea right, like that would ever happen!
If you’re the kind of guy who hesitates, I got news for you… There are no perfect windows of opportunity, just many good ones. 99% of the time she will not be the first to initiate any form of intimacy. If she does, consider yourself lucky.
How do we handle this slightly awkward situation?
Very simply.
The key here is spotting these good, small windows of opportunity and then taking advantage of them.
Even better is to just create these windows yourself.
Let’s cover this point-by-point:
The first thing to make sure of is that you’re both having a good time, getting along well and physical contact has been established. It could be anything from holding hands, to a playful push on the shoulder. At this point it is important that she has touched you in some way indicating interest on her part.
When you feel you have reached this point, start slowing down the energy of the interaction. Start subtly moving a bit closer to her, slowing down your speech, and take longer pauses between sentences. The thought here is SUBTLE.

Now here’s the secret, the one move that will assure you to be remembered by her as the smoothest guy ever… During each of those pauses in your conversation, stare at her lips. You can even start talking again, though slowly, still staring at her lips. Start slowly moving in closer. The words you’re saying at this point become irrelevant; the sexual tension in the air will be too thick.
Slowly move your eyes from her mouth to her eyes and back again. If she has not moved away, or shown any sign of unease, you can place a hand on her hip and bring her in closer.
Usually she will lean in the rest of the way and kiss you. After all, at this stage, your lips should only be an inch or two away from hers.
In her mind, you are the world’s smoothest man.

E-Book Version of Seduction Science 3rd Edition Released!

An electronic book version of The Seduction Science System, 3rd Edition has been released, packed onto over 360 pages.
It’s been over four years now since I first released the original Seduction Science System, and since then THOUSANDS of truth-seeking guys have used my system to explode their success with beautiful women.
So I decided to RE-DO the complete system into an audio version, and work in all the NEW stuff that I’ve learned over the past few years.

And now I’ve released an electronic book version for INSTANT access.
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I also include the detailed and revolutionary advice of a man who meets and sleeps with more beautiful women in a single month than most men will in their entire lifetimes.
He’s the best I’ve ever known at picking up women in bars and night clubs (better than me) and walking out with any woman of his choice.

I was very fortunate that he allowed me to share his secrets and incredible mindset here in this program.
After all, nothing compares to actually hear from the very best who are living a lifestyle most guys only fantasize about. Here’s just a few of things that you’ll learn.
McMaax’s 18 rules for picking up women.
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How to use your friends as help in clubs, rather than them holding you back.
McMaax’s advice on picking up strippers with field report.
The danger of routine dependency and how to avoid the trap.
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